At 8 o’clock in the morning, Rie set the post to be uploaded on social media at 5:30 in the afternoon when she thought that more people would surf more after their long days at work.
Mathew has not changed his avatar on Facebook for years, not many status or updates although his social life was fulfilled and energetic – to him, social media were not big issues. Some of his online followers did not know much about how interesting he was if they met him in the office.
A young college student, Mary, got inspired by several illustration artists on Instagram with thousands of followers. She looked back at her artworks and found them not amazing or professional at all. She tried imitating others’ style and jazzed them up with her personality. The number of her followers increased and job offers came as a summer rain to her.
D, a hacker, got a lot of money from “this job”. Faking others’ identities to spread the word of racism on Twitter is his hobby in the dark while back to the light, he was such a nice colleague to others.
On social media, people have more freedom and flexibility in expressing their identities to others. Without body language or voice tones, we use texts or media to let people know what we want them to know. We take an active role in shaping and framing ourselves in front of device screens instead of worrying about others’ eye-rolling or laughter. Of course, there are pluses and minuses of being relatively invisible or even anonymous on social media but in general, online users find it comfortable since they are bosses of themselves, at least on the platform that they can either choose to embrace for just a moment or 24/7.
Because of invisibility via digital communication, people tend to disclose themselves earlier in the “potential relationships” and “develop closeness faster than that in face-to-face offline relationship”. Although when meeting face-to-face, people interact with each other more thanks to the diverse source of information – conversation, voice tone, facial expression, and body language – those might be the barriers that we sometimes afraid to speak out loud. On screen, we might imagine others’ reactions to our stories but that also reflects our personalities or expectation. We can reasonably come up with excuses to stop chatting with those we don’t feel comfortable with while in real life, it is considered rude. Therefore, we take more risks sharing part of our lives, which even becomes a career path of so many influencers, YouTubers, or freelance designers.
Because of the invisibility of social media, online users share emotions more easily. They may not know the whole stories of others but they catch the sorrowful moment of their friends, empathize with others, and may even offer helps. A Facebook user who is not very active on social media still knows what happens to her friends via newsfeed, which might take her more effort and time just to update the news. Although she stays invisible, she is still taking an active role in absorbing information.
Being in the dark to observe others in light comforts most people, so does being anonymous on social media. People feel safe to speak out loud their abused childhood or to point out the evil in their lives without much fear when posting a status online. We have heard of a glossophobia – the fear of public speaking but we know that typing the stories on keyboard or mobile phone screen is such a pleasant feeling. The problem may not be solved – the evil may be still there – but our basic demands, including the ability to share and be shared with, are probably satisfied to some extent.
Even with power, bad guy remain bad or even worse. Now that in the darkness, everyone can become bad more easily. Their identities are not defined so there is no need to be responsible for everything they have done on social media. People text love icons to each other so effortlessly that they also commented harsh words to others restlessly. One can take advantage of other’s sharing on social media to steal their information, break into their house or kidnap their children. One can fake other’s account or personality on digital platform where they know no one would take time to confirm the information. The flood of information of online users, which is either shared on social media platform or collected via business system, could be their weakness that others can make benefit from.
Being identifiable or invisible depends on the lifestyle and decisions of web browsers. Social media enlarge the flexibility of the rate of information being exchanged, either providing ones with ultimate freedom or the depth of sin. Internet is not absolutely a nightmare or a paradise – what makes the e-society depends on how we interact with social media and technology




